More Thoughts on Change

  My mind continues to reflect on the thought of change these days.  It’s one thing that we humans are always faced with, but usually dislike intensely.  And yet it is a part of life that we will always face, there’s really no way to escape it.

 Maybe it’s the time of the year that continues to lead me to this subject.  The seasons are changing:  the time of rejoicing in the bounty that the earth has provided us will soon change to the winter, when mother nature puts on her cold white coat and everything appears (on the surface anyway) to have died.
 
This is also a time of year when many faiths take time to reflect on the previous year and recognize any mistakes that were made, atone for them, and make plans to change for the better in the coming year. 
 
As the lyrics of a popular song say, remember in the winter when the world is cold with snow, there’s a seed that in the springtime with the sun’s help becomes a rose.
 
So things are not always as they appear.  And yet we humans still try to hang on to things as they are, never thinking that if we let go of the outcome they might become better than we could ever imagine. 
 
The fact is that the only state where there’s a lack of change is death.  Well that’s not exactly true but close enough to make the point.
 
I’ve chosen some of my favorite quotes on change and changing.  I love quotes because often they say exactly what I mean but someone else already said them so why re-invent the wheel. LOL
 

I’ve hi-lighten my most favorite ones with “**“: 

He who rejects change is the architect of decay.  The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery.  ~Harold Wilson

**If you don’t like something change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.  ~Mary Engelbreit

It is not necessary to change.  Survival is not mandatory.  ~W. Edwards Deming 

All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.  ~Anatole France

**When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.  ~Victor Frankl

The man who looks for security, even in the mind, is like a man who would chop off his limbs in order to have artificial ones which will give him no pain or trouble.  ~Henry Miller

**Change is inevitable – except from a vending machine.  ~Robert C. Gallagher

**If you’re in a bad situation, don’t worry it’ll change.  If you’re in a good situation, don’t worry it’ll change.  ~John A. Simone, Sr.

**When you are through changing, you are through.  ~Bruce Barton

Faced with the choice between changing one’s mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof.  ~John Kenneth Galbraith

They must often change, who would be constant in happiness or wisdom.  ~Confucius

**The only difference between a rut and a grave is their dimensions.  ~Ellen Glasgow

Life is its own journey, presupposes its own change and movement, and one tries to arrest them at one’s eternal peril.  ~Laurens van der Post

Growth is the only evidence of life.  ~John Henry Newman, Apologia pro vita sua, 1864

Just because everything is different doesn’t mean anything has changed.  ~Irene Peter

Time is a dressmaker specializing in alterations.  ~Faith Baldwin

The birds are molting.  If only man could molt also – his mind once a year its errors, his heart once a year its useless passions.  ~James Allen

The man who never alters his opinion is like standing water, and breeds reptiles of the mind.  ~William Blake

**You can avoid having ulcers by adapting to the situation:  If you fall in the mud puddle, check your pockets for fish.  ~Author Unknown

Time, which changes people, does not alter the image we have retained of them.  ~Marcel Proust

**Stubborness does have its helpful features.  You always know what you are going to be thinking tomorrow.  ~Glen Beaman

If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies.  ~Author Unknown

 This is my most favorite one!  Imagine that if the caterpillar refused to change and stayed inside it’s cocoon,  we’d never have butterflies!  So to if you refuse to change and hang onto the old ways you might never realize the potential that you’ve missed, might never become that beautiful butterfly that was locked inside you all along just waiting to get out!

So in summation I’d say it’s perfectly normal to be afraid of change and the unknown, but don’t let it stop you from doing it because it’s the only way you’ll grow:

 Come to the edge, she said.

        No, we can’t, we’re afraid.

Come to the edge, she said.

No we can’t, we’ll fall. 

Come to the edge, she said.

And they came.               

And she pushed them.         

And they flew……………………..    

 Guillaume Apollinaire   

 

  Lizzy

© EMO 3/12

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2 Responses to More Thoughts on Change

  1. Bendita says:

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